Talking to your tween about online safety can feel like walking on eggshells. We get it—the digital world is their playground and you want to make sure they play safe. Here are some tips to help make these conversations both productive and enjoyable for you and your tween.

Starting with empathy

Before diving into online safety, it's crucial to empathize with your tween's perspective. For them, the digital realm is more than just scrolling on the apps—it's where they connect, learn and express themselves. Acknowledging this sets a positive tone for the conversation.

Here’s one way to start a conversation, "I understand how important your online world is to you. Can we discuss how to ensure it remains fun and safe?"

Learn together

Make online safety a collaborative learning experience rather than a one-sided lecture. This approach engages your tween and empowers them to take an active role in decision-making.

Explore resources together, like Google’s Be Internet Awesome. This platform offers interactive ways to explore privacy, security and respectful online behavior.

Setting boundaries

Teens are more likely to adhere to rules they've had a hand in creating. Involve them in the conversation when discussing things like internet usage and screen time. This ensures their voice is heard and respected.

Start by asking them what they believe is a reasonable amount of daily screen time and go from there. You could also discuss how they plan to balance their online activities with other interests and responsibilities.

Maintain an open dialogue

Share your own online experiences with them to create a safe and open 

environment. This helps them feel comfortable and encourages them to share their own online experiences with you. They need to know they can come to you without fear of judgment.

Show your support by saying, "If anything online ever bothers you or if you're unsure about something, please come talk to me. I'm here to help, not to judge."

Utilize technology wisely

Use tools that help you monitor and guide your teen's online activities without being overly intrusive. Apps like Google Family Link strike a balance between supervision and independence, fostering trust and responsibility. 

Propose setting up the tool together to make them feel involved. Explain that it will help both of you monitor their online activities and ensure their safety, without requiring constant check-ins from you.

Encourage positive behavior

Highlight the importance of being kind and respectful, even online. Explain that what they say and do online matters, just like in real life. Talk about how being positive can create a friendly online community, while negative behavior can hurt others. Encourage them to think about how they would feel if someone was unkind to them. 

Keep the conversation going

Remember, talking about online safety isn't just a one-time chat but an ongoing conversation that evolves over time. Keep revisiting these topics to tackle new challenges as they come up.

Approaching these discussions with empathy, teamwork, and open communication empowers your tween to make smart choices online. This approach helps both of you navigate the digital world safely and confidently. Happy chatting!

Keeping your t(w)een safe online with Ting Internet

Talking to your tween about online safety might seem daunting, but with empathy and open communication, it can become a valuable learning experience for both of you. By understanding their perspective, setting mutual boundaries, and using technology wisely, you can create a safe digital environment where they feel supported and empowered.

At Ting, we understand the importance of keeping your family safe online. With our commitment to transparency, you can focus on what truly matters: helping your tween navigate the digital world safely and confidently. Check if Ting is available in your area!